title: Managing Agitation Crises in a Person with Alzheimer’s: Step-by-Step Practical Guide
description: Comprehensive guide to understanding, preventing, and managing agitation crises in people with Alzheimer’s: triggers, calming techniques, prevention strategies, and step-by-step protocol to regain calm.
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"My father starts shouting for no reason, he becomes aggressive." "My mother gets agitated in the evening, she wants to leave, go out, she can't calm down." "He hit me today, I no longer recognize him." "I don't know what to do anymore, I'm afraid of him."
Agitation crises are one of the most challenging aspects of Alzheimer’s disease. Your usually calm loved one may suddenly shout, become aggressive (verbally or physically), fidget, refuse any help. These behaviors are not malice, but symptoms of the disease: the damaged brain can no longer manage emotions, frustration, confusion.
This guide explains why these crises occur, how to prevent them, and most importantly, how to react step by step to soothe your loved one and regain calm.
Table of Contents
1. Understanding Agitation Crises
Understanding Agitation Crises {#comprendre}
What is an Agitation Crisis?
Manifestations:
- Shouting, screaming
- Motor agitation (aimless walking, gesticulating)
- Verbal aggression (insults, threats)
- Physical aggression (hits, bites, scratches)
- Refusal of care (violently pushing away the caregiver)
- Attempt to flee (wants to leave, go out)
- "I am in pain"
- "I am hungry"
- "I am scared"
- "I am lost"
Duration: From a few minutes to several hours (if not managed).
Why Does This Happen?
1. Brain Degeneration
Brain areas regulating emotions (frontal lobe, amygdala) are damaged.
Consequence: Loss of emotional control, disproportionate reactions.
2. Inability to Express Verbally
The person can no longer say:
Agitation = only way to express discomfort.
3. Confusion, Disorientation
No longer recognizes places, people.
Fear, anxiety → Defensive agitation.
4. Frustration
No longer understands what is being asked, can no longer do simple things.
Frustration → Anger.
This is NOT Malice
Your loved one does not want to hurt you.
He/she is suffering, confused, scared, and cannot express it otherwise.
Fundamental principle: Never take agitation personally.
Common Triggers {#declencheurs}
Physical Triggers
1. Pain
2. Fatigue
3. Hunger, Thirst
4. Need to Go to the Bathroom
5. Uncomfortable Environment
Emotional/Cognitive Triggers
1. Confusion, Disorientation
2. Fear
3. Frustration
4. Change of Routine
5. "Sundowning" Syndrome
Caregiver-Related Triggers
1. Caregiver's Tone of Voice
2. Sudden Movements
3. Forcing
4. Contradicting, Correcting
5. Too Many Stimuli
Soothing Protocol: Step by Step {#protocole}
Step 1: Ensure Your Safety and That of the Person
ABSOLUTE PRIORITY: Safety.
If physical violence (hits, bites):
1. Step back, create distance (leave the room if necessary)
2. Never retaliate physically (worsens the situation)
3. Protect the person from themselves
4. Call for help if necessary
Principle: Your safety first. You cannot help if you are injured.
Step 2: Stay Calm (Even If It's Difficult)
Your calm = key to soothing.
The person with Alzheimer’s senses your emotions (even if they no longer understand the words).
If you are stressed, agitated → They become more agitated.
Techniques to Calm YOURSELF:
1. Deep Breathing
2. Self-Talk
3. Smile (even if forced)
Step 3: Identify the Trigger
Ask yourself the questions:
Physical?
Environmental?
Emotional?
Time?
If pain/infection suspected → Consult a doctor quickly (urinary infection, constipation).
Step 4: Adapt Your Communication
Golden Rules:
1. Tone of Voice
2. Short, Simple Sentences
3. Do Not Contradict, Do Not Reason
- ❌ "Your mother is dead, stop"
- ✅ "Are you thinking of your mother? She loved you very much." (validation)
4. Non-Verbal Language
5. Avoid Touching (at the beginning of the crisis)
Step 5: Soothing Techniques
1. Distraction
Redirect attention to something pleasant.
Examples:
2. Familiar Music
Very powerful effect (musical memory preserved for a long time).
Play music from their youth (50s-60s if elderly today).
Soothing songs that they liked.
3. Soothing Activity
4. Walking
If she gets agitated while walking aimlessly:
Accompany the walk (in the garden, in the room).
Speak softly while walking ("We are walking together, it's nice").
Physical fatigue → Gradual calming.
5. Change of Environment
If agitation in one room: Suggest going to another room (quieter, more familiar).
"Let's go to the living room, it's quieter."
6. Reassuring Presence
Sit next to her (without talking, just being there).
Hand on shoulder (gently, if she accepts).
Synchronized breathing (breathe calmly, she will unconsciously align).
Step 6: Respond to Physical Needs
If trigger identified:
Pain:
Hunger/Thirst:
Bathroom:
Temperature:
Fatigue:
Step 7: Patience and Perseverance
Soothing takes time (15 min to 1h).
Do not expect an immediate return to calm.
Stay present, patient, kind.
If one technique does not work, try another.
Prevention Techniques {#prevention}
1. Structured Routine
Fixed schedules (waking, meals, bedtime) = Secure, limits confusion.
2. Calm Environment
3. Avoid Fatigue
4. Suitable Activities
5. Nutrition, Hydration
6. Address Physical Causes
7. Kind Communication
8. Light at the End of the Day
Sundowning: Turn on lights before sunset (avoid abrupt day/night transition).
When to Seek Medical Help {#aide-medicale}
Consult Quickly If:
1. Sudden and Unusual Agitation
2. Frequent Physical Violence
Consultation: Neurologist, geriatrician (possible adjustment of medication).
3. Constant, Uncontrollable Agitation
Solutions:
Medication Treatments
Last option (after trying everything).
Possible medications:
Risks: Side effects, excessive sedation.
Always under strict medical supervision.
Testimonials
Marie, caregiver for her father
"My father had agitation crises every evening. I didn't understand. Then I read about sundowning. I changed: lights on earlier, meals advanced, soft music. It changed everything! The crises decreased by 80%."
Jean, son of a mother with Alzheimer’s
"My mother screamed when I dressed her. I realized I was going too fast, I was abrupt (due to fatigue). I slowed down, I speak to her softly, I explain each gesture. Now, it goes well. It's long, but it's calm."
Conclusion: Soothing with Patience and Kindness
Agitation crises are exhausting, frightening, but manageable with the right techniques. Understanding triggers, adapting communication, using soothing strategies, and above all staying calm: these are the keys to regaining serenity.
Key Steps:
1. ✅ Ensure safety
2. ✅ Stay calm
3. ✅ Identify trigger
4. ✅ Adapted communication
5. ✅ Soothing techniques (distraction, music, activity)
6. ✅ Respond to physical needs
7. ✅ Patience
You are not alone. Our Alzheimer training teaches you these techniques in detail. EDITH helps prevent agitation through cognitive stimulation. And our free guide supports you daily.
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Agitation is not malice, it is a cry for help. Respond with calm, patience, love. You will succeed.